A Winter Theme

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Choosing a theme for your wedding can be tricky and difficult sometimes. You can link your theme to the seasons using colours like white, silver or gold for "winter", orange, red or brown for "autumn", yellow, green or fuchsia for "summer" and lilac, pink or blue for "spring". 

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Today, we are focusing on the winter themes since it is December and recent stories about snow storms and white Christmas(es) in Europe have inspired us. 

Winter weddings can be done in Singapore. It doesn't matter if you are smacked in the middle of the tropics and it is 35 degrees Celsius outside. What matters is that you create a gateway that brings your guests into your world, a winter wonderland. And oh... you do not need a snow machine to do that!

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We love winter themes and we promise that it does not have to be cheesy. Instead, winter themes can be elegant with the use of clever props and the right venue. We recommend crystals chandeliers, anything white like fur, wraps, feathers and candles. An ice bar can also be a quirky addition to the theme where your signature cocktails could be placed and served. Even flowers play a part in making winter, so if you want a winter wedding, use your creativity to make it happen. Here are some pictures to give you a head start.  

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A Destination Wedding in Phuket

Destination weddings are such a joy to plan. Everyone is always smiling since it is considered a holiday, there are countless get- together(s) before and after the wedding day, guests get a chance to sunbathe and glow on the day of and everyone is just in such a fantastic mood. For a planner, destination weddings are always fun because the sky is the limit. The canvas is different and we are able to create a totally different style to what is typically Singapore. 

Reenie and Adam met about 2 years ago and were a delight to work with. Very easy going, happy faces and totally in love. There were no a signs of stress on their faces as we went through document by document on food selection, flower designs, seating plans, gown designs and so on. 

Reenie made her gown plus the bridesmaids dresses with Ee-lyn from We Love Yu in Singapore (she is fantastic, so please check out her website). The gown was a simple, satin bustier with pleats and gemstones on the side. The bridesmaids dresses were similar, just shorter and in lilac with a deep purple sash across the waist. The colours were lovely and suited a beach wedding perfectly.

The wedding took place along the private beach of Le Meridian Hotel, Phuket. The ceremony started at about 6pm with the magnificent backdrop of the sunset, followed by cocktails and a dinner reception after - all outdoors! Here are some of my favorite pictures for your enjoyment. 

 

We had a blast on this trip, planning, coordinating and making sure every detail was right on spec. It can be quite difficult when you are not in control of the vendors so checking and double checking is key. Be sure to expect surprises!

The only regret we have? Not bringing our cameras for the after party held in the hotel's underground club - it was a wild night!! 

So, to Reenie and Adam, here is wishing you a lifetime of happiness and joy! May your adventures begin! 

xoxo,

The Wedding Stylist Team

Tiffany What? oh.... chairs... Tiffany Chairs

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The current "must have" at your wedding are these beautiful, elegant Tiffany chairs. They are the new hype for 2011 so Brides-to-be, watch out for them! I know many of you will be wondering, what is so special about these 'stick like' chairs... well, the answer is simple. How many weddings have you been to that "WOW" you when you walk into the event? Few? How many events have you been to are filled with common white linen covered chairs? Probably 99%. So, if it is your special day, a day you want perfect, a day you want remembered, decorations, furniture, linens, table center pieces are important, they make up the details. 

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Many people forget how simply changing the chairs will impact the design and style of the wedding reception. The effect is powerful and the change is small. If you take any overseas wedding magazine and flip through it, you will notice that Tiffany chairs are used extensively in events, it has become part of the deco, like lights, candles and flowers. So, why would you want boring creased white linens chairs that look heavy and plain? 

Tiffany chairs bring life to the wedding ambience, it is the complementary accessory to your tables. 

When you use Tiffany chairs, they go very well with simple decorations and there, you can cut costs. You will not need 50% more flowers to add colour to the white dominated room nor do you need  large sashes and bows to tie on every chair. You can use them as they are or add a little ribbon for the perfect girly finish. They are so sweet and simple, my favorite find this year!

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Now, where can you actually get them in Singapore? Well, I work with a long time friend of mine - Melissa Wang from Wonderland for Detailed Planners. She has Singapore's largest collection of Tiffany chairs in various colours (including cushions) and if you are considering having them at your wedding, you know who to contact (her for chairs, me for wedding planning)! She is having a December promotion at the moment, so do check out her website. 

Happy Happy Chair Shopping!

After the Engagement...

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So what does one do after being engaged? Most couples have no clue and to be honest, neither did I when I got engaged. So here are the top 5 steps on what you should do next.  


ONE: Pick a date

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This is extremely important as everything you plan is around this little number. You need to set the date so you can check if venues or vendors are available. 


Once you have a date, it makes planning the wedding real. You have a destination to go to and this is the start of your ride. 


With the growing diversity in the guest list, it is not uncommon to have people arriving from overseas. So, send a save-the-date notification, the earlier the better, giving your guests ample time to arrange traveling plans.



TWO: Have a head count

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Is it 100 or 200 or 500? Whatever the number, it is best to have an estimate before you set out your wedding budget. Which subsequently leads to booking the reception venue, ordering of stationary, catering numbers and so on. Yes, it can be daunting when doing a head count... concerns like - did you miss out anyone? should you invite your distant relative's partner whom you have never met? Should you invite children or is the wedding an all adult affair? You will answer these questions as you move along, the idea is to have an estimate first. 


THREE: Choose a theme
Themes come in many different types. And the best way to decide is based on how you want the wedding to look and of course, the cake, deco and stationary will follow. 

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Some popular themes:
Traditional - Think classic white weddings, church ceremony, princess dress, cathedral veil, etc.


Colour - the use of colours can make up the ambience. Such as white and sky blue gives a very boathouse/beach feel to the wedding, green and ice pink could portray a garden tea party feel... colour themes extend out to the outfit of the wedding party and sometimes, even the cocktail drinks!


Destination - get married in an exotic location with your closest family and friends, then head off to your honeymoon straight after! Sounds good doesn't it?


Nostalgic - bring on vintage, art deco with chandeliers, a masquerade party with feathers and masks, or a 1950s rock and roll theme for everyone to put on their dancing shoes.


Personal - this could play with the couple's hobbies, where they first met, maybe their lifestyle from high society to the causal modern chic couple. 

FOUR: Hold on

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Juggling inter family tensions or any sort of tensions will be expected. Hold on!! Best way is to talk to key people within your family or friends, particularly someone respected whom might be able to help you. You do not want to be in the middle of drama when it is a week before your wedding. Try not to let difficult people get you down, but instead think of it as part of organizing a family celebration! 


FIVE: Start gown hunting

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This is the fun part! But before you head off to the shops, do a little research first. FLip though magazines to see what design details catches your eye. Always keep an open mind as you never know what will suit you. Once you have seen a good few magazines, your style will slowly emerge and you will have a better idea of what type of dresses you like and you can begin the hunt!

Simply Perfect

We have been so busy that it took us some time to post up this wedding. Small and intimate of about 150 guests, the wedding was held in a little restaurant consisting of an outdoor area where the ceremony was held, followed by a cosy evening reception. 

I love small weddings which are attended by family and friends. Just like in this one, everyone knew each other and most of the evening was filled with bursts of laughter, hugs, smiles and just plain happiness (plus good food and fine wine!!).  

This wedding is definitely one of our all time favorites. Not only was the decoration and venue beautiful, the people involved in the event made the wedding more special. An old time friend of the bride and groom flew back from the UK, where he lives just to take on the role of the emcee. His speech was light-hearted and filled with joyous stories about the couple. The bride and her friends did some DIY and they personally made the favors themselves using pastel coloured paper clips and handmade magnets. The favors also acted like a place card which was very clever. 

 

The wedding theme was pink and each table was dotted with small square pots of pink eustomas, pink drops and some greens. Simple and sweet. The cupcakes were a HOT favorite. Placed perfectly on a 4 tier cake stand, each cupcake was designed individually with different shades of pink flower icing. They were later packed into little boxes for the guests to take for as a mid-night snack! 

When the evening came to an end, the couple told everyone to take home the little pots of flowers as yet another gift. A very thoughtful present as I took home two myself (with permission, of course) and have been using them as tea light holders. 

A lot of wedding couples think that you need to spend a fortune to create a dream wedding. But honestly, simplicity can sometimes be the true gift to the perfect wedding.

Delight Me with Shoes

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I was with a bride for her fitting yesterday and it was the first time I got a peek at her gowns. Each dress she had chosen suited her personality seamlessly and were of great taste. She is funny, witty, friendly and just a laugh to be with. So her dresses, like her, were full of life and strong in colour. Being unconventional, she mentioned that the colour of her shoes were going to be black!

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Gone are the days when the bride wears white from "Head to Toe" (as Tyra Banks might say), these days, brides have become bolder, more fun and they know what they want. Especially when it comes to shoes, there is an increasing trend for the modern bride to wear a strong attractive colour. A perfect pair of shoes is something that you can wear again and again, and have people notice them all the time!

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You can play with the material and the design of shoes. Satin, velvet, patent and leather are very suitable with a wedding theme, just make sure you season them before your big day to prevent blisters. Louder accessories like gem stones, crystals, ribbons and other trimmings on shoes add personality to your outfit. So don't just go for the first pair of white shoes you see at the boutique, try on something different and have a fun picture taken with them! 

An evening at the Raffles

It was a lucky evening. We went from Plan A(outdoors) to Plan B(indoors) and back to Plan A (outdoors)as the weather cleared up in time.

The evening started with guests enjoying their cocktails in the Palm Courtyard of Raffles Hotel during sunset and swaying to the voices of Equivox. The couple made a small walk-in across the courtyard with guests throwing rice on them and flower girls blowing bubbles in the air. At the top of the East India room steps, they exchanged their personal vows which brought tears to the eyes of some guests!  

Red had been chosen for the theme, which complemented the classic look of Raffles Hotel. Deep red roses were used in the flower decorations and the wedding party wore pink cymbidium orchids tied with red satin ribbons. Each guest was given a chinese style porcelain teacup  wrapped perfectly in black boxes(favours) and a small note listing out 10 random facts about the couple.   

The evening continued with a string of speeches by the Father of the Bride, the Groom and the Bestman. Live jazz music was provided by Shili and Adi throughout the night making the evening even more intimate, relaxed and romantic. 

Our Love for Veils

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Have you wondered how the tradition of brides wearing a veil came about? I mean, it is rather random that this tradition or some might say culture, has travelled from East to West or West to East. 
In Asia, the Chinese wear the red veil and in the west, they wear the white veil. Whatever the colour, the groom lifts it when claiming his bride. So why do brides wear the veil? Here is a fun fact: 


Long long ago, when marriages were arranged and before the word dating was invented, it was a custom that the groom did not see his bride until their wedding day. Part of the wedding ceremony included uncovering her face. This custom was followed by the Romans, the Hebrews, the Hindus, the Chinese, and many other ancient European and Asiatic people. 


The veil was worn as a protection against evil spirits and the evil eye (this was a long time ago!). The bride wore her veil as a disguise so that these evil spirits, jealous of her happiness would not know who she was, and therefore, could not hurt her or create havoc on her wedding day. 

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Today, we have such a large selection of veil designs and your choices are endless. Let us go through some basic ones with you.

Blusher: This is a short single layer veil which is usually worn over the face during the ceremony and then pulled back over the hair.


Flyaway:  Multi-layered shoulder-length style, ideal for keeping the detail on the back of a dress on show.


Elbow: An elbow length veil is usually attached to a headpiece and extends down to your elbows. 


Fingertip: With your hand by your sides, the ends of the veil will reach your fingertips. 


Waltz: The waltz veil is sure to create an impact and will work well on slimmer fitting dresses, even those without a train. This long veil will flow from your headpiece right down to your ankles.


Chapel: The chapel veil is a beautiful and traditional choice the flows down over the train of the dress. This is a formal choice and best compliments a traditional gown with a long train.


Cathedral: This veil extends 3.5 yards from the headpiece. Make sure if you opt for this choice, the rest of your gown is substantial enough to carry off this look. 

Besides the length, you can also create a different look with the textures and finishings of veils. These are some designs by Sara Gabriel. 

Birdcage

Birdcage: Our personal favourite. This chic modern veil just blows us away. Birdcage veils can be worn with a fascinator or fresh flowers.

Mantilla

Mantilla: This Spanish inspired veil is usually made of lace trimmings. It falls over the head and can be worn alone as it does not require a headpiece to keep it in place.

Silk Trimming

Silk Trimmings: This piece is a classic. Works well with most gowns and gives of a very simple but elegant finish.

Multi-tiered

Multi-tiered: If you like to add some volume to the veil, opt for a multi-tiered design. 


The veil is an essential accessory for you as a bride. It can complete your look or it can destroy it. Therefore, it is important to make sure that you pay attention to this little head piece! This is truly the "other half" to your gown.